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What is 'psychologically' a woman?

Sport is played with our sexed bodies, not our 'gender identities'

I applaud any journalist who brings attention to the absolute travesty that is the Lia Thomas case; sport is played with our sexed bodies, not our 'gender identities' and we need the public to be made aware of what is being inflicted upon women under the guise of 'inclusivity'.


I am also generally a fan of Sarah Vine; she doesn't usually shy away from difficult subjects and does not seem to be afraid of controversy; so why am I angry about
this article?


It's because of this paragraph:


"The truth in this case is that Lia Thomas, while emotionally and psychologically a woman, still retains much of the physical attributes she acquired as a man. And as such, she should not be competing against other women who do not possess her inherent advantages."


The truth? Let's be absolutely clear: Lia Thomas is a man. Born male, a boy, now grown to adulthood and therefore a man. It doesn't matter what Thomas does to his body, or how he wants to be perceived, the fact is he is a man. Our mainstream press seem to believe it would be wrong to say this, or perhaps believe it would be unkind to say it, so we end up with paragraphs like the one above.


How is Thomas 'emotionally' a woman? Does he cry at chick-flicks? How can anyone make sense of that description without resorting to stereotypes?


How is Thomas 'psychologically' a woman? Again with the stereotypes; as I was reading this article, (in a break from sorting out some financial arrangements), my husband was sewing.

Is he 'psychologically' a woman?


Then 'she should not be competing against other women'. We all know that this should read 'he should not be competing against women'. The use of 'she' and the phrase 'other women' gives the impression Thomas is a type of woman. He is not. He is a man. He may prefer us to comply with his belief he is some type of woman, but he is not, and let's be honest, the often heard plea 'be kind' really means 'be compliant'.


In a brilliant
article by Barra Kerr, (now on the Fair Play for Women website after being removed from Mumsnet and Medium) the effects of this abuse of reality are made clear:

“Forcing our brains to ignore the evidence of our eyes, to ignore a conflict between what we see and know to be true, and what we are expected to say, affects us.”


Now I know some of you may feel this is unfair, that Sarah Vine is doing her very best under difficult circumstances in order to bring this issue to the attention of millions of readers. We agree, the circumstances are difficult; ask one of the many women (and some men) who have been banned from social media and from various websites for the crime of speaking the truth.


But while we continue to repeat the ridiculous idea that a man can be 'emotionally and psychologically a woman' then we will continue to tread water in the fight for the rights of women and the safeguarding of children. I struggle to believe Sarah Vine believes this man is actually a woman, so why not speak the truth?


As Barra Kerr says:

“I want to be alert. I want others to be alert. I want people to see the real picture, and I want those instinctive reactions that we feel when something is wrong, to be un-blunted, un-dulled by this cheap but effective psychological trick. I feel like I owe this to myself, and I absolutely owe it to other women.

And more than anything, I owe this to girls. I don’t want to play even the tiniest part in grooming them to disregard their natural protective instincts. Those instincts are there for a reason. To keep them safe. They need those instincts intact, and sharp.”


We owe it to women, and we certainly owe it to girls. To keep us all safe. To protect women’s sport. To preserve our hard-won rights.

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We hope this newsletter finds you well and gearing up for an election battle that’s only just begun, and with the reminder that, however dire the polls, Teresa May had a 20 point lead over Jeremy Corbyn in 2017… and then she published the Conservative manifesto and enraged the public. Her lead plummeted and the Conservative’s majority shrank enough that she had to make a deal with the DUP to command a majority to govern. Labour should be publishing its manifesto tomorrow and there is every chance it contains something that will enrage the public at large. Even if that doesn’t transpire, there is still everything to play for, and to that end, our candidates need your help. We already know the Conservatives have pledged in its manifesto to make the Equality Act clear , to clarify that sex means, and has always meant, biological sex, and not something that can be modified by a piece of paper. This, along with other manifesto commitments, is a measure that will do a great deal to help preserve single sex spaces, and protect the safety and dignity of women and girls. We now need to get out there and make it clear that our candidates not only know what a woman actually is, but will always put the safety, privacy and dignity of women and girls first. If you haven’t read it, the full manifesto can be found here . We highlighted some of the key statements in our X thread here . One of the first candidates to give a clear and well informed response to questions on women’s rights and child safeguarding was Michael Tomlinson , Conservative candidate for Mid Dorset and North Poole. Let us know if your candidate says something useful! Below, we have listed every Conservative candidate who is known to be supportive of our aims. Every one of these candidates needs support, whether it’s through encouraging messages via social media or by offering assistance with canvasing – any and all help, however seemingly small, is desperately needed. This is by no means an exhaustive list, and we are sure there may be more but we wanted to get this out to you quickly. If you see them around and you intend to vote for them, tell them WHY they have your vote. If the opposition asks why you won’t vote for them, tell them too! Women's rights and child safeguarding matter. If you would like to get directly involved with any of the campaigns for the PPCs listed, you should find contact details on their websites; if nobody gets back to you quickly then let us know via a DM on X or email us at info@conservativesforwomen.org as we have direct contact with many of the campaign coordinators. If none of these MPs are local to you, there are still things you can do that help: follow them and like their pages/posts on social media for example. Many have a presence on X, Facebook, and Instagram. You could consider doing some telephone canvassing - just half an hour a day could make a difference to any one of them. Contact them directly - or volunteer via the Conservatives website. Or do call one of our directors Caroline Ffiske on 07712 675 305 if you have not done this before and would like a few tips! Let’s give this one last push before we all mark our Xs on the ballot papers. First of all, the women:
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